Aphasia group is a therapy program I've had the opportunity to be a part of the past 2 years of graduate school. This past weeks meeting was exceptional...thus why I am blogging about it :)
We invited a speaker to our group and this man has a God-given ability as a speaker. His presence in the room is amazing. Our caregivers open up in ways they never have before. There were tears, laughing, and deeper bonds formed within our group.
Thought provoking question #1: 'What does the word 'Caregiver' mean to you?'
Memorable statements made were: Caregivers give care but it's not always about doing something...sometimes it is all about being there. I'm probably messing up this quote but it went something like this...Don't just 'do', but 'be'. Misquoted or not...the point is still made. It's not always about the words said but just your presence in the room. Making yourself available to those hurting or in need. Members shared frustrations & successes. It's awesome to see lightbulbs go off as members relate to each others stories. They realize they aren't going through this journey alone.
Thought provoking question #2: "We have now spend the last 48 minutes together. This is time we can't get back. What have you taken away from the time spent here?"
Some of the things shared: "I've learned what patience is," "I've learned to not worry about things I can't control," "I've learned to pray about everything and ask for strength always," "I attempt to do everything my husband is asked to do so that I understand more of what he is going through."
We talked a lot about 'care' and to me personally this translates as 'love.' Showing love can come in all forms. Whether showing patience or helping a loved one become more independent...it can all be done in love. The strength these precious people have and the love they give everyday is unbelievable.
"Live life passionately ,Love unconditionally, Hope for the best, Laugh your heart out, Cry when needed and learn from your past. But most of all remember; what ever is meant to be, will eventually find it's way to you."